This is what I have, and I'm going to use BGT/BWP:
Ascension (I heard this was a special case)
Almateria's Restoration Project
BG1 and BG2 Unfinished Business
BG2-fixpack (I understand this is important)
BG1 mini-quests and encounters
Banter Pack V14
BG1 npc project, and music
Dark Horizons (BWP failed to install this for some reason)
Drizzt Saga
Fading Promises
Freedom's Reign, and Virtue
I Shall Never Forget
IEP Banters
Inner Shade
Jarl's BGT Tweak Pack
Lure of the Sirine's Call
BGT NPC Portraits
Shards of Ice
Slandor
tales of the deep gardens
The Sellswords
The White Queen
Turnabout (Is this one a special case too?)
Wheels of Prophecy
Zalnoya and the Shadow Thieves
ToBEX extender
I've subtracted out Darkside and Northern tales because they also failed to install in BWP, and so I've decided to leave those out, but I would like to somehow keep Dark Horizons if there is a way to make it work. I'm assuming at this point I won't actually need the BP_Balancer since I'm not play those mods in the end.
Anyway, let's assume I'm going to use BWP again, but is there any special cases I must do first before I run the program again? Also while I'm at it, does it make a difference if I pick either Standard or Recommended? What happens if I picked Standard? Does Standard deviate from the BWP guide, and assumes you want every component installed?