I'm not sure if I should be posting in this forum or the modding workshop forum section, anyway.
I really need some help when it comes to mod installation order for BG2. Every time I look at a forum, whether it be this one, pocketplane, sorcerers place, etc, everyone has a different idea of what mods to be installed and the order is always different. Or you have some people who hate the Big Picture et al, and prefer straight out Weidu, or vice versa. So I have yet to see a list of what is actually compatible with what, I asked on pocketplane forums for some help, but I seem to have got no answer

Anyway, what I really want to install is:
i) as many kits as possible, and yes I know there is a limit;
ii) as many npcs as possible;
iii) preferably the BP, as it uses TDD, and a whole host of others; and
iv) a lot of the Weidu stuff.
There are some npc's, kits, and mods, I wouldn't install, because some I think are just too munchkin.
What I want from what I have listed above, is something that expands the game play to a lot more hours, and gives me a wider range of npc's and quests to do. Under plain old BG2 and BG2:ToB I tend not to vary my party much, and do get tired of playing the same old kits time and time again.
If someone can give me a comprehensive skeleton of what should be installed when and where, I would greatly appreciate it.
For the moment, I do install BG2 -> ToB -> Official Patch -> Baldurdash Patch -> Collectors Edition CD Shopkeepers, in that order, though I probably should reverse the last two. But really when I don't know the order of the mods to install after that. I'm not really prepared to download gigabytes of mods, especially to find out, that a lot of them I won't be able to put together.
I also, would rather be told an expert skeleton mod install order, rather than a basic one for someone who hasn't played and installed many mods before.
Anyway, thanks for any help.