That being said, my first hope is that while engaged in the creation of such "rainbow" material that those so engaged will be able to manage the fervor of their proselytizing and their supercilious intolerance for others beliefs and traditions. Not to be patronizing but being respectful and tolerant of others beliefs apply not only to those who don't approve of homosexuality but also to those who do approve/endorse it.
My second hope is similar to the first in that instead of going on a crusade to "overthrow game conservatism" that modders just continue to create fun mods that, to echo Simding0's point, are free from tacky selling points in an attempt at being unique.
Well, you convinced me to change the initial post to focus more on the essentials and less on the politics.
But there have been repeated demands upon Bioware/Obsidian to implement this choice, and they have officially said "no". They HAVE listened to people who want to be evil, implementing everything from racism/rape/baby sacrifice/devil worship in the games, something which takes far more work than simply *not* adding the CHECK_GENDER tag to dialogue. I cannot see why they are so against meeting the other kind of demands when they make so much effort to support people who dream about being a menace to society in every single dialogue plus different endings.